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Focus on that and all the other wonderful, fulfilling aspects of your life. She’s the one who did this to your friendship and you MUST put yourself FIRST.It sucks to let go of a long-time friendship, but she’s drawn a line in the sand that can’t be washed away by any tide. You might be surprised at some of the celebrity friends who have dated the same person; keep reading to see them now. But I never told my bestie that we were spending time together, let alone that we were growing close.Dear Auntie Gigi, I broke up with my ex boyfriend a few years ago. He is not some heartthrob, he's someone who behaved horribly towards you and made your life a living hell. You shouldn’t be upset that she’s betraying your friendship, you should be sad for her. I can’t even imagine the amount of self-loathing this girl must be weighed down with to do this to herself. If she wants to date him, despite knowing all of these things about him...that's on her. You have to know when it’s time to let go of toxic relationships, even if you’ve been friends forever. If she asks you if you’re distant because of her relationship with your ex, tell her the truth. It appears the friendship has run its course and you need to surround yourself with people who have your best interest at heart and make you feel supported.He was severely emotionally abusive, manipulative and generally treated me like crap for the whole three years we were together. Everyone in my life eventually found out and got me to leave him. So, you were right to acknowledge that it wasn’t the “ex-factor” that made you angry. Unfortunately, this is NOT a normal situation and is in no way a run-of-the-mill case of “la la la my friend wants to date my ex boyfriend and now I’m annoyed! This girl is supposed to be YOUR friend and KNOWS that this asshat was ABUSIVE to her best friend. Under what circumstances is your friend even SPEAKING to this freak show, let alone dating him? She’s clearly being heavily manipulated, and is falling for it. Your ex is not the only one who is bad for you anymore. It’s hard to watch someone screw up their own life. All at once you want to knock some sense into her for being such an idiot, and punch her for dating your ex boyfriend. Through her actions, she's essentially saying that she has no self-worth, that she doesn't give a f*ck about you went through as an abuse survivor, and she cares more about this guy than she does about you. Honestly, this was likely the final nail in the coffin.It's a touchy subject in many friendships, but on the one hand, dating your friend's ex might turn out to be no big deal at all.On the other hand, it may matter to your friend or even yourself, so tread carefully if that's the path you're choosing to take.
On more than one occasion, I was told that my friends were hot — without any hint of interest in me. My best friend and I have been besties since the fourth grade. She was with this guy for four years, up until early May of this year, when he suddenly decided to break up with her. I started hanging out with him about two weeks later, at first thinking I was just being someone to talk to.Well, me and this guy started sleeping together about two weeks ago and we're crazy about each other. My feeling is that she would be very hurt, but at the same time I don't want to pass up a chance to be with someone who could turn out to be the love of my life, you know?Anyway, that all sucked, but I survived, and then in college I lost weight.The world may see me differently now, but I still struggle, too.